Dating shy nerdy guys
Many of these ways have been tested by some of my closest friends (yeah they’re all nerds, I’m cool like that) Some of these ways, some of you might see as LAWLing more than looking, but we have a wide selection, so you Any kind of Con- I.
E Comicons, Blizzcon, Botcon, Anime Cons, E3 (if you can get tickets, lucky mother fucker….). I mean think about it, smart, funny, and usually sexy in one way or another- that’s a helluva find!
Someone with creativity, whether is be musical (a big plus for me) or painting, writing, woodworking, etc... :-PNerdy guys are going to have a lot of personal interests and finding a gal who shares in (or at the very least is prepared to tolerate) some of those interests (just as he should be able to show some interest in hers) is very important to maintaining a harmonious relationship.
Same principle as any relationship really, just that those interests might not be as mainstream as most (bit 'quirky' even!
in general i think that nerdy guys are smart and cute.
so my question is, what do you girls think about them? PS: nerdy as in innocent, glasses, nice, shy, kinda type of guy. (not that I can talk since the person I like is 'apparently' really hot haha.) hahaha.. i wouldn;t know on whether i would become their gf's or not because it really depends whether they can attract me with their nerdiiness..
Moreover, while nerd-dom has become mainstream (even cool), it didn’t used to be, and many a nerd grew up suffering at the hands of dumb guys or b*tchy girls. Yeah, it’s a bit cheesy, but there’s a reason this franchise was so amazingly popular: it has memorable characters (including a strong woman), lots of good humor, and a cosmic theme that appeals to everyone. I have gotten non-nerd friends (male and female) hooked on BSG.
To succeed with him, show him you aren’t one of those people and that he’s awesome the way he is. It has none of the cheesiness of Star Trek and everything it lacked: sex, violence, drama, very strong women, and seriously hot guys. In many ways, relating to a nerdy guy isn’t all that different from relating to a non-nerd; he just has different toys.
Instead, focus on his intelligence, faithfulness, and other great traits. Make sure he knows you recognize what makes him great! To belittle or make fun of his hobbies is to belittle him and sends the message that he isn’t good enough the way he is. Ask him why he loves his favorite sci-fi books or movies. Pay attention when nerd-dom hits national news — for example, just this week Disney announced that it purchased the entire Star Wars franchise (for a sum numbering in the billions) and will release more Star Wars movies. This is a gripping, well-acted movie with a very strong female main character. On a cold or snowy day, pop some popcorn (or grab some beers) and watch the old trilogy.
I often find myself attracted to them (especially if they love science and/or mathematics), and there is one in specific that I get really shy around. Also, any tips and/or advice on how to catch your interest and/or know when you’re into a woman? He'll open up like the automatic doors at a grocery store.
I’ve only talked to him a few times, and he’s always really nice and friendly to me. :-)I suppose I consider myself a nerdy..or, rather, geeky guy. I geek-out quite a bit when it comes to guitars, cars, electronics, swords... I like a woman who's got brains and doesn't rely on her looks to get her by. A girl with hobbies, something she's passionate about.
Actually, he’s really nice and friendly to anyone that talks to him…I guess I have a hard time knowing if he or others like him are interested in me or not. Someone who can talk about a WIDE variety of subjects, and someone who is interested in a wide variety, as well. I look for someone who's interested in more than "shopping" and "make-up." A conversation more than "what's on TV? " As for physical appearance, I consider then secondary or even third-dary.
Anything from Physics to auto mechanics, from Skyrim to Norse Mythology. Like to tinker and "fix" things that aren't broken? I'm not necessarily looking for "Penny" to my "Leonard" but I'll tell you what, Bernadette is hawt and Amy Farrah Fowler....well, I wouldn't kick her out of bed for eating crackers either =)Haha! :-D Or the Gold bikini Princess Leia wears in Rot J!!